Oh Mandy.

Ask me anything   20 something. Chi Omega. Marine Sister.
Northern Independence & Southern Charm.

sileron-evol:

distance sucks holy shit

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— 3 weeks ago with 238 notes

noten:

I really can’t wait for winter because then I can start wearing the other 97% of my clothes 

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— 3 weeks ago with 346383 notes

trapcartel:

If you make a girl feel bad about her body u a bitch

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— 3 weeks ago with 245293 notes
adventuresinla-laland:

Secret from PostSecret.com


This happened to one of my best friends. She isn’t even engaged yet. And she cried to me about this fear one night a few months before he passed.

adventuresinla-laland:

Secret from PostSecret.com

This happened to one of my best friends. She isn’t even engaged yet. And she cried to me about this fear one night a few months before he passed.

(Source: postsecret.com, via fifty-shades-of-caitlin)

— 3 weeks ago with 27 notes
slumdog-billionaire:

SIGNAL BOOST:
Warning to all women using the OkCupid dating site/app; if you are matched with this guy DO NOT CONTACT HIM. He has raped two girls and assaulted several, and is known to stalk, harass, and abuse. Police have been notified but no charges were ever filed. Long story short he got away with it every time. If he shows up on your feed, do not answer his messages and please report him. He is extremely dangerous. Be careful. Please reblog to try and keep women safe.

slumdog-billionaire:

SIGNAL BOOST:

Warning to all women using the OkCupid dating site/app; if you are matched with this guy DO NOT CONTACT HIM. He has raped two girls and assaulted several, and is known to stalk, harass, and abuse. Police have been notified but no charges were ever filed. Long story short he got away with it every time. If he shows up on your feed, do not answer his messages and please report him. He is extremely dangerous. Be careful. Please reblog to try and keep women safe.

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— 4 weeks ago with 37710 notes

labyrinth-of-lucifer:

I really fucking hate it when guys act like marriage is literally the end of their lives like if it’s so fucking bad, and you hate it so much, don’t get fucking married and put your spouse through hell because you’re shit. If you feel trapped you’re doing it wrong.

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— 4 weeks ago with 102490 notes
Saying “No” to Sex (possible trigger warning)

I am afraid to know how many girls out there have had sex with a guy just because they felt it was what was expected.

You didn’t really feel like it, but he wanted to, so you just put up with it and act like it’s what you want when in reality you are dying inside. Wishing for any other situation but this one.

This especially happens in relationships. If you are having sex regularly then it is just expected, right? It’s not rape because you always do it, right? And I mean, you can just think about other things while he is pounding into you, right?

Wrong.

If you don’t want to have sex you have the right to express yourself. You shouldn’t just do it because it will make him happy, or because “it’s not hurting anything to just get it out of the way.”

Society has taught women that our feelings, wants, and needs come second to our male partners’. We have been taught all our lives that we shouldn’t complain if a boy wants to be physical with us, that it is a compliment. And you should never deny the boy that you are in a relationship with sex if you already do it all the time.

So many women (myself included) at one point or another have simply ignored their feelings about having sex with a guy and accepted that it is something that is going to happen and that you might as well just go along with it.

Please realize that this is not ok. Understand that it is ok to say no if you don’t feel like having sex.

— 4 weeks ago with 1 note
#sex  #relationships  #consent  #feminism  #womens issues  #trigger warning 
"Long distance relationships have their own sense of beauty. That someone can wait days, months, or even years for someone they love who are miles or oceans away. That someone can fall deeply in love with someone and love all the moments that are shared. It doesn’t matter if someone is miles or oceans away; being loved by someone’s fullest is something so beautiful and raw."
Linda Nguyen | Moments are all we need (via unfoldvibrantly)

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— 1 month ago with 9673 notes
"Bad Relationship"

Not many people know about my first serious relationship. I brush it off and call it a “bad relationship” without really talking much more about it. But I feel the need to explain the situation that I found myself in only to hopefully help someone else.

I was 18 when I started dating a boy. He was going into his junior year at a prestigious private college in SC. Our families were friends and we had flirted all throughout highschool. The timing was finally right and we decided to give a relationship a shot. That first summer started out perfect, he looked at me in ways I had never been looked at. He made me feel like I was the most important thing in the world to him. He made me feel special. This was love I thought to myself.

Soon the fights began. Over silly things like me going to a bachelorette party. He got mad at me for going to a coworkers house for the party. Said that it was trashy and more or less called me a slut for participating in such a thing. I ended up crying at the party and had to have someone take me home early. He told me he didn’t want me to go to the beach with him anymore and then he wouldn’t answer my phone calls. All because I went to a party that he didn’t agree with.

The next day he apologized, bought me something nice, and told me it wouldn’t happen again.

It did. Over and over and over. To the point where I would do nothing but go to class, go to work, come home, and Skype with him. He had my class schedule written down and tacked up to his bulletin board in his room. He knew where I was at all times. If I didn’t text him enough I got yelled at. If I text him too much I got yelled at.

Eventually I stopped spending time with any other guys because his jealousy scared me. I was in tears every other night. I would come to his school whenever he asked, sometimes even skipping class to go, because in his mind he was more important than my education

Through everything, I still came back to him. My greatest fear in life was losing him. No one else would ever want to be with me. I was a stupid girl after all. I was lucky to have him. He showered me with expensive gifts and he still made me feel special. After all, he was only acting this way because he loved me so much.

I wasn’t allowed to wear make-up. I was expected to wear the style of clothing that he felt was appropriate.

Months into the relationship-countless nights of sleep lost, and hundreds of dollars later (I spent way too much money on him trying to show my commitment and love)- he broke up with me. The following day, he was with a girl from his school.

I was devastated. It took me at least 6 months to recover and feel the slightest bit whole again.

Looking back, I feel that he finally ended things because I was beginning to stand up for myself. Making decisions against his will, and telling him “no.” I never would have ended things. I couldn’t, I loved him, and I was manipulated into thinking that he loved me.

Abusive relationships never start out that way. It is hard to see that you are in one because you are blinded by the lies and manipulation. You completely lose yourself and it takes so much to come back from that.

Ladies, please understand your worth. Know that you are worthy of unconditional love.

— 1 month ago with 9 notes
#abuse  #abusive relationship  #emotional abuse  #college  #womens issues  #domestic issues  #manipulation  #relationships  #fear 

With you I have felt such a range of emotions.
I have felt things that I did not know I could feel.
I have felt things that I cannot put into words.
You are the one that I do not want to imagine my life without.
I want to wake up next to you every day for the rest of my life.

And that scares me more than anything.

— 1 month ago with 1 note
#relationship